Divorce isn’t the happy ending that anyone wants when they first get married, but it’s a real-life situation that many of us have to navigate. In this episode of Thank Me Later Real Life, we sit down with Tanya Mitchell Graham, Esquire to share EXACTLY what to do to get through a divorce. In Part I of this series, we discuss:

• The top reasons women contemplate divorce
• Why a consultation with an attorney is the first step you should take if you’re considering divorce

Why divorce is like declaring war! How men often hide money during the divorce process How to protect the information and evidence that you’re gathering to support your divorce claim How to separate your emotions from the divorce to stay focused on the task at hand Why you should create copies of his personal and business financial records (i.e. credit card statements, bank statements, Cashapp/ Venmo/ Paypal records) The importance of screenshotting suspicious activity he flaunts on social media (i.e. car, boat, trips) Why you should have a backup (aside from iCloud) to store your digital files and protect the evidence Why you should be acting as normal so you don’t tip him off that you’re filing for a divorce Pick up Tanya’s book “Save Yourself: (Before You Change Your Mind)” on BookBaby – bit.ly/Tanya-Book